A hoax by a runway bride is not a topic I would normally address.
However, the national interest in Jennifer Wilbanks’ decision to
“postpone” her wedding in Duluth, Ga. by falsely claiming to have been
abducted while jogging is irresistible. As many have now pointed out,
her cold feet has gotten her in hot water. This case of life imitating
Reality TV speaks volumes about us as a society. Usually, the
fact that Wilbanks contracted a sudden case of cold feet would be of
interest only to her embarrassed fiancé, her parents and friends, the
14 groomsmen, 14 bridesmaids and the 600 invited guests. But many
Americans are voyeurs, interested in peeking into the personal lives of
others. And if there’s a sordid side, that makes it even more appealing. So,
from the time Wilbanks was said to have been abducted, to her
cross-country trip that ended up in Albuquerque, N.M., where she
finally admitted that it was all a hoax, to the first class airline
trip back to Georgia, Americans feasted on this real life version of
“Survival.” Now that she’s back, inquiring minds want to know:
Will she be convicted of a misdemeanor or a felony? Will she get any
jail time? And will she be treated like the University of Wisconsin
student that concocted a similar story and ended up getting probation,
community service and ordered to repay the $10,000 it took searching
for her? And what about the poor fellow left at the alter, so to speak?
Will he still want to marry her? If so, what does that say about him?
What does it say about him if he does not want to marry her? As
these end-of-the-world issues were being debated over the past two
weeks, there was one aspect of the saga that grabbed my attention.
Before acknowledging that she had made up the tale, Wilbanks claimed
that she had been abducted and forced into a blue van by a Hispanic man
and White woman. When I heard the Hispanic angle my mind flashed
back to numerous hoaxes in which to gain public sympathy, a White woman
said to have been abused or raped by a Black male. At least, Wilbanks
took a different route by claiming this mystery man was Hispanic. In
either case, the point is the same: introduce race or ethnicity into
any case with sexual overtones, and story will get around-the-clock
coverage in the national media. In 1989, Boston businessman
Charles Stuart murdered his wife for life insurance and tried to cover
it up by alleging that a Black man had killed his pregnant wife.
Hundreds of Black men were questioned or by police. Stuart committed
suicide the following year and it was only then that the truth came out. Susan
Smith also knew the power of introducing the element of race into a
case. She claimed a Black man wearing a skullcap had carjacked her car
in South Carolina, driving off with her two infant sons. She tearfully
pleaded for their return on national TV. She later tearfully admitted
later that she had strapped her two sons into the car and plunged it
into a nearby lake. There have been many lesser-know cases in which the race card was played to establish credibility. Professor
Karen K. Russell wrote a book a few years ago titled, "The Color of
Crime: Racial Hoaxes, White Fear, Black Protectionalism, Police
Harassment and other Macroaggressions." In the book, she details nine
cases between 1987 and 1997 of White women making up stories about
being raped by Black men. For example, a student at George
Washington University in Washington, D.C. said she had been raped by
two Black men. She later confessed that she had lied to highlight a
dangers faced by female students on campus. Another time, a White
woman contended that she had been kidnapped by three Black men at
gunpoint, was drugged and forced to have sex with the three men.
However, police said the woman had lied to cover up for having stayed
out all night. I believe Jennifer Wilbanks knew exactly what she
was doing by asserting that a Hispanic man and a White woman abducted
her. She knew that as long as many Whites continue to hold
stereotypical views of people of color – that the men are criminals who
can’t contain their sexual urges, especially toward White women – they
have a better chance of people believing their lies.
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