In the around-the-clock media coverage of Anna Nicole Smith, I don’t
recall one shock jock calling her a ho or a slut. Yet, Don Imus felt
emboldened enough to describe the Rutgers basketball team as a bunch of
“nappy-headed ho’s.” Never mind that the young women are not whores.
Never mind that, courtesy of modern chemicals, they weren’t even
nappy-headed. Never mind that more than half of the predominantly Black
team had a grade point average of 3.0 (B) or higher. To Imus, they were
simply whores. If they are ho’s – shorthand for whores – then
what in the world was Anna Nicole Smith? The high school drop-out was
performing at Gigi’s, a Houston strip club, in October 1991 when she
met oil billionaire J. Howard Marshall. Though married since the age of
17, she reportedly began an affair with Marshall. Two years later, she
dumped her husband. On June 27, 1994, Smith, then 26 years old, married
Marshall, 89. She denied that she was a gold digger and professed her
love for her new husband, reportedly with whom she never lived. Just 13
months after the marriage, Marshall died, touching off a furious fight
for his estate, valued at $1.6 billion. The fight over the estate
continues to this day. The other fight – the one ignored by the
shock jocks – involved a dispute over who was the biological father of
Smith’s daughter, Dannielynn Hope Marshall Stern, born September 7,
2006. This is where you need a program to keep track of the baby’s
purported fathers. The New York Daily News reported that Anna
Nicole’s younger half-sister said the former Playboy model had used the
frozen sperm of Marshall to conceive the baby, a charge that was later
discredited. Howard K. Stern, Anna Nicole Smith’s “personal” attorney,
admitted on CNN’s “Larry King Live” that he had been in a secret
relationship with his client for “a very long time” and believed he was
the father of the baby. Then, ex-boyfriend Larry Birkhead stepped
forward to say, surprise, surprise, it was he who was the father. In
perhaps the biggest surprise, Zsa Zsa Gabor’s husband, Frederic Prinz
von Anhalt, came forward to say he had been there and done that. Former
Smith bodyguard Alexander Smith said he had tapped his former employer
and could be the father. Mark “Hollywood” Hatten threw his hat into the
fatherhood ring. And those are just the ones who came forward to admit
they had slept with Anna Nicole Smith. DNA tests confirmed that
Birkhead, the former boyfriend, is the father of Dannielynn. With
that record, it seems that if anyone would have been called a ho – and
I am not saying she should have been described as such – it would have
been Anna Nicole Smith, whose photo was used on the cover of a New York
magazine issue titled “White Trash Nation.” Society has a
double-standard when it comes to labels. Men who sleep around are
described as spreading their oats. But women who do the same thing are
called sluts and hos. Let’s not forget that the Rutgers women are not the only women who have been grossly maligned. After
Rep. Cynthia McKinney (D-Ga.) had a run-in with Capitol Hill police,
conservative talk show host Neal Boortz said on a Match 31, 2006
broadcast, “She looks like a ghetto slut.” Referring to McKinney’s
hair, he said, “It looks like an explosion in a Brillo pad factory.” At
another point, he said, “She looks like Tina Turner peeing on an
electric fence.” The sexist remarks are not limited to African-American women. According
to the Web site mediamatters. org, Glenn Beck, a regular commentator on
ABC’s “Good Morning America,” has referred to Hillary Clinton as “the
stereotypical bitch.” Michael Savage recently called Barbara Walters a
“double-talking slut.” Chris Matthews refered to Clinton as an “uppity”
woman. Even so-called liberal columnists, such as Maureen Dowd of
the New York Times have sought to besmirch former Senator John Edwards
by calling him the “Breck Girl.” Rather than addressing these
issues, supporters of Don Imus have resorted to attacking Jesse Jackson
and Al Sharpton. We should not be confused by clever effort to switch
the focus of this debate. Pat Buchanan calls the firing, “The Imus
Lynch Party” and Rush Limbaugh proclaims that “minorities never do
anything for which they have to apologize.” Buchanan forgets who were
the real lynching victims in America and I could write a separate
column chronicling the numerous instances of African-Americans making
public apologies. Let’s stick to the point: Talk radio is
dominated by Right-wingers who enjoy hurling racist and sexist barbs.
They should follow Imus out of the door.
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